Friday, October 05, 2012

Twenty-one Days: A Healthy Jaded Update

For most of October, my diet will mainly consist of this:


and this:


and then towards the end of the 21 days I'll be reintroducing these:


All in the name of getting my body right.

Jesus be an electrified fence around Atomic Wings...

*smooches...gearing up for the battle FOR my life*
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no more kid games; time to get really real, son!

Thursday, October 04, 2012

The Mistakes Of My Fathers

Growing up, I was pretty much in the dark about the history of the Dominican Republic. The topic wasn't taboo or anything-Trujillo didn't run my family off the island-it just wasn't something we spoke about.

Then a few years ago I read Edwidge Danticat's The Farming of Bones, which included mention of a massacre along the border of DR and Haiti, and I was in total shock. I knew Trujillo was a "bad man" but the extent of his evil astounded me.

Today, in Dajabón, and through Saturday, the two nations that share the island of Hispaniola will commemorate the genocide committed by El Jefe.

From the press release:

Courtesy of CulturalDiplomacy.org
Among the notable artists supporting and attending the gathering is author and activist, Julia Alvarez. "Many Dominicans in the diaspora and in the country have been waiting for an opportunity to acknowledge a shameful event in our past, the 1937 massacre of thousands of Haitians, ordered by the dictator Trujillo, and carried out by Dominicans. We feel compelled to do what our governments and our treaties, our accords and our conferences have not done: to express our sorrow for this shameful crime. We would also like to celebrate our many collaborations, our brotherhood and sisterhood. We look to the future and our shared hopes for this whole island and small planet,” says Ms. Alvarez. The project has the support of other leading public figures, including Edwidge Danticat, Michele Wucker, and Junot Díaz.

I met Ms. Danticat years ago at a writing conference and felt compelled to apologize to her for that atrocious blotch on our common history. She looked at me as if I were crazy but that's OK. I needed to say it, for all the years I kept a blind eye to what had happened on the island and for everything my family didn't do to put a stop to it.

I'm still a proud first-generation Dominican American, for sure. Just a little wiser and little less snooty about it.

*smooches...moving on but never forgetting*
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one of these days I'll have to make a pit-stop in Dajabón...

Wednesday, October 03, 2012

Some Culture For Your Ass

It's Wednesday; I doubt you're doing anything more than watching TV and plotting debaucherous activities for the weekend. Why not pop over to the Fashion Institute of Technology's Katie Murphy Ampitheatre after work and see the play "Drawn From Water"? For free, and just in time for Latino Heritage Month!


*smooches...enlightening you hos one post at a time*
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I'm a giver; it's what I do.

Tuesday, October 02, 2012

Mari Speaks On...

...Mami and I telling stories about the "exorcism" she had as a baby:

"Y'all need to keep my demon possession out y'all's mouths!"

*smooches...still giggling to myself*
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and yes, all of this is true.

Monday, October 01, 2012

Bilinguality With Hilarity

I grew up speaking both English and Spanish fluently, which later morphed into Spanglish. Watching "¿Qué Pasa, USA?" was like the best of both worlds for a little bilingual girl like me.

This particular episode is about Carmen's Fiesta de Quince and Joe's struggle with his culture and identity. I totally miss these characters!

Enjoy my trip down memory lane:







I wonder if Steven is still a Hottie McHottie... I'd totally do him three ways from Sunday and back again!

*smooches...thinking I'll use more Spanish than English this week*
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besides, I have to get my kids up to par before our next DR trip